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The Kindness That Comes With a Bill

A sudden gift or an honest confession can be the opening move of a con

A small gift lands in your hand. When a bigger request follows, what should decide your answer?

You'll find out

  • The pull behind a free gift
  • A request with its own price
  • An answer that protects your plans

Why it matters

Keep the gift and the decision separate, so a warm moment does not quietly spend your time or trust.

About 3 min6 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 19 · Zone 3

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