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Guilt Is a Lever

If you suddenly feel you owe someone, ask who put that debt there

You missed a promise. Now someone wants your whole weekend. Where does repair end and a new commitment begin?

You'll find out

  • Guilt's pull on your next yes
  • The repair and the extra demand
  • A commitment you actually choose

Why it matters

Repair your part without handing over your weekend, your interview preparation or your next yes.

About 3 min6 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 21 · Zone 3

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