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How Being Manipulated Feels

Confused, guilty or rushed? Those feelings can help you spot pressure

Have you ever rehearsed an apology before deciding whether you even wanted to say yes to a request?

You'll find out

  • The pull before your yes
  • Two everyday pressure traps
  • A next step that stays yours

Why it matters

Recognize the pressure inside a request before it gets to choose for you.

About 4 min7 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 27 · Zone 3

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