Reading PeoplePersonal Space

Personal Space Has Four Zones

Step inside someone's invisible bubble and their body reacts before they do

Someone takes a step back while you're talking. Is that about you, or is the space telling a different story?

You'll find out

  • Map four rough distance zones
  • Read the reason behind a step
  • Make the space work for your goal

Why it matters

Read distance with the actual response so you can get your question heard and keep your own space.

About 3 min6 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 35 · Zone 4

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