Reading PeopleMimicry

Mirroring: The Silent Yes

People who like each other start copying each other without noticing

Why can a conversation feel strangely easy when someone moves like you, yet leave your actual plan completely unresolved?

You'll find out

  • The rhythm you barely notice
  • When copying steals the conversation
  • A useful answer beyond the echo

Why it matters

Use a light echo to keep conversation flowing, then follow the actual reply to find a plan that works for you.

About 3 min6 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 31 · Zone 4

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