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Baseline First, Judge Later

A change is easier to notice when you know someone's usual pattern

Ever thought someone seemed nervous, then noticed the same fidget in relaxed chats? Their usual pattern can make a change easier to spot.

You'll find out

  • What was there before you noticed?
  • When is a comparison unfair?
  • What if going still is the change?

Why it matters

Spot changes sooner, so you don't mistake someone's familiar fidget for a new sign of unease.

About 3 min6 interactive slides · 5 questionsLesson 4 · Zone 1

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